The now well-known book and DVD series called The Secret has been on Oprah (which makes any book a blockbuster), Ellen DeGeneres and even on Larry King Live. Ultimately, The Secret claims to be a simple secret that can lead to happiness, wealth, and even good health for you and anyone else who knows it. What is The Secret? I’ll let the author explain:
Author Rhonda Byrne says the secret is the law of attraction: If you think positively, you become a magnet that pulls everything you want toward you. - - USA Today
So is this simple plan real? Is it True?
The Secret is deceptively simple
I think one reason for the popularity of The Secret is it’s apparent simplicity. Just believe as Disney has told us over the years. But is this something new? Not really. The Secret in simple terms is another shot at New Age mysticism. On the Oprah show, Jack Canfield (co-creator of Chicken Soup for the Soul) explained it in terms of physics: thought is energy so positive thoughts are positive energy that attracts other positive energy. This is very theoretical, to say the least, but is it practical? Let’s examine a couple of cases . . .
The Secret in practice
If something works, it must be true, correct? In other words, if the Law of Gravity is real then it affects everyone. On Oprah the practitioners (so to speak) of The Secret pointed out that if you are negative, you attract negative things. Just to take one disaster – the New Orleans Hurricane – and try to explain it using The Secret: those people were thinking too negatively. If they were positive, it would not have happened.
Okay that’s a negative viewpoint, but you suggest it might work in the positive. Again referencing Oprah, they actually pointed out that someone who wants to be a great singer should just decide it was going to happen and think positive. It would then happen. That simple. But when I watch American Idol I notice that there are a lot of extremely bad singers that really believe they are good. Unfortunately they just don’t have the talent. In other words, they have faith in their singing ability and are positive enough to believe that the American Idol judges will select them. But they aren’t selected because their faith is misplaced: despite the claims of The Secret you can’t just wish to have a great singing voice (Lord knows I’ve tried).
Reality versus The Secret
The Secret is great as a motivational tool. It does encourage positive thinking and outlook, which is excellent. But the reality is that we live in a fallen world and suffering is a regular part of our world. The biggest error of The Secret is that it doesn’t reflect this reality and tries to suggest that suffering is somehow your fault:
Susan Folkman, a psychologist at the University of California, San Francisco, says she worries about The Secret's suggestion that "people can cure themselves and that if they don't, they are somehow to blame." - - USA Today
In fact, as Christians we believe that our suffering has value that can’t simply be wished away. With St. Paul our sufferings “make up what is lacking in Christ’s sufferings.” No amount of positive or wishful thinking will remove pain, sickness, and suffering from our lives. And it should be this way: perfection can only be attained in heaven.
The real Secret
The real secret for all of us is that Jesus Christ could have stayed in heaven as God and enjoyed eternity. But instead He decided to come to earth and die in order to that we might live forever with Him. Despite our own little secrets hidden in closets everywhere. The real secret is that God loves you and cares when you suffer. Every hidden pain and injustices is felt by God who remembers and loves you for trying.
Positive thoughts? Good. The love of God? Much, much better. That secret is all too hidden today and provides a lot more value than any book, even if it were a secret.
God bless,
Jay